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Psychology & Human Behaviour

Honest, practical writing on the psychology behind attraction, red flags, and the patterns that quietly shape who we're drawn to.

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A woman looks troubled and withdrawn on a sofa in the foreground, while a couple talk warmly together in the background
The Hidden Cost of People Pleasing

Always being easygoing has a price. What it quietly costs you in dating.

By Find Yourself A Date · 28 August 2026
 A woman reaches out toward a man walking away from her on a city street, a dotted line leading from her to a glowing heart near him
Why Some People Are Addicted to the Chase

The thrill can fade the moment someone's genuinely interested back.

By Find Yourself A Date · 28 August 2026
 A man looks away thoughtfully while several speech bubbles around him show guilt-tripping phrases, with a concerned woman sitting behind him
When Kindness Becomes Manipulation

How to tell genuine care from a pattern of control.

By Find Yourself A Date · 28 August 2026
 A woman at a restaurant table looks thoughtfully at a man across from her, with a row of red flags labelled with warning phrases floating beside her
Why We Ignore Red Flags

Warning signs are rarely invisible — they're explained away.

By Find Yourself A Date · 28 August 2026
 A woman sits on a sofa looking thoughtfully away, while in the background a man on his phone is out of focus; a heart-shaped thought bubble above her shows a different man
Why We Fall for People Who Are Bad for Us

Attraction and compatibility aren't the same thing.

By Find Yourself A Date · 28 August 2026

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